050 Beyond Your Wedding Day Podcast-Take A Look At Your Bedroom
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In this episode of the Beyond Your Wedding Day Podcast,we continue our discussion on the book Stripped Down by Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo from oneextraordinarymarriage.com. We discuss chapter 11 entitled “Radio Shack to Love Shack.”
We discuss how awesome our Thrive90 Fitness Program (affiliate link) is going. We are in the final 2 weeks and plan to finish strong!
90 Days of Sex Challenge update: High fertile time is still making it difficult. We can’t wait until we get a low reading on the fertility monitor!
-Is your bedroom a sanctuary?
*or is there toys, laundry, and other things that make it cluttered or messy all over the place
-Move the computers, televisions, and cell phones out of your bedrooms
-Discuss with each other what a sanctuary would mean to you.
-What about your bed/bedding?
*what size bed would be ideal for you
*spend some money on really nice sheets
-Improve the overall ambiance in your room.
*can you dim the lights?
*Are there places for candles or pillows?
*Do you have music?
*If you like scents, then the bedroom is a great place for some aromatherapy
-When you leave “stuff” (like clothes, papers, dishes, etc) laying around your room and don’t make your bed, it feels like just another room in the house
*instead it should be a special place
-Electronics really are a distraction in the bedroom
*a study of 523 couples found that a TV in the bedroom decreases sexual desire by about 50%
-Decorate and paint your room colors that will lend itself to intimacy
*search online or in décor magazines for inspiration
*don’t have photos of other people in your room (who wants to see that while trying to have sex)
I’d love to help you and your spouse or fiance get on the same page financially. Here’s how.